Dating and game players
It was a detailed report including my dress, makeup, table manners and of course sexual performance.The cheeky git even added some tips for how I can improve my game.A simple reply saying “sorry that’s not what I am looking for” results in never hearing from them again or a polite reply saying ” thanks for the reply and I hope you find what you are looking for”.These people I can respect, I may not wish to live their lifestyle but they are honest, polite and genuine. These are the guys and girls that send you sexually explicit, rather nauseating first messages, including their instant messaging details so you can have cyber sex or an unsolicited message saying “liked your profile, blah blah blah, I have attached a photo of myself.After a few bad experiences and a lot of heartache I now enjoy playing ‘spot the players’ on dating websites, so it’s a strange hobby but after all some people like train spotting don’t they?!Do not confuse a player with people who simply enjoy casual sex, players are called players for a reason, it’s all a game to them.As awful as it is to admit this I just wanted to warn you”.She and I are still friends to this day and sure enough after a few weeks on the site I got my first message from him telling me he was just about to give up on the site when he spotted my profile.
Players tactics include but are not limited to: The difficulty in spotting them is that they seem so sincere and the reason is because they are. however not with you but with the game they are playing.
However they will not tell you they are no longer interested, so you will get messages like: Their reasons for the cool down are always ‘honourable’ and designed to keep you poised to come running when they next click their fingers.
It is simply a power trip for them and nothing more, they have invested time and energy into you and are not going to give you up that easily.
Basically this behaviour is the equivalent of that letch you saw in the supermarket car park last week that told you what a nice attractive bottom you have and what they would like to do to your bottom (but not in those words).
Treat the online equivalent with the same contempt and do not respond to them and DO NOT open the attachment, this just feeds their desire to shock.
well they should be good at it, they get enough practice.